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Most of the time we are
stressful because we are always thinking about what people will say if
we fail in our examinations, if we are badly dressed, if our hair is
not well groomed; and so on… Visualize our Ganeshjee. Ganeshjee has a crown, which as you know was part of our dress centuries ago… it was replaced by the turban, the hat, and so on. Well, it signifies self –respect. In today’s world, we must wear our own crown… never mind, be it of gold or of silver or of paper! Never lose your self –respect because if you lose it, you have lost all. One who cannot respect himself, cannot expect to be respected by others. Failure causes stress… lots of stress. But for a wise man, failure is not falling down but staying down. Failure is not the end of dreams; it is only the beginning. Failure teaches success if you are open to new ideas and consider failures to be stepping –stones to success. A man can fail many times, but he is not a real failure until he begins to blame someone else. Stress leads to failure. There was one man in this world who believed in all that has been said above, and who has become a “lighthouse” for millions of stressful people who followed him. His name was Abraham Lincoln. His resume is as follows:
Age 22, failed in business Abraham Lincoln did not bother what people said about him when he failed. Even when he became the President, people still criticized him but instead of becoming stressful, he expressed this deathless line: “No man is good enough to be President, but someone has to be.” Lincoln would certainly have believed in the fact that a failure is an opportunity for a man who has kept his self–respect intact. Now, thinking the Lincoln way and trying to be happy will give you happiness while you are going about achieving it. You do not have to worry about what others think about your failure; they are too busy thinking about their own failures! Each step towards success can give happiness if you are trying to do it bit by bit, creatively as well as imaginatively. Creative thinking is possible when your self –image is intact. You can then face people as well as your other auditors in life. Your self–image is in your mind. Your self –image improves when you have good family relations, good moral standards, good friends, enough cash, when you love what you do for a living, follow the essentials of your self –esteem by helping other people. A Positive attitude pays. Please remember that when you feel good about yourself, you improve your self–image and it is a fact that it reduces your stress. Why? Because you can hold only one thought in your mind at a particular time. Try! If you are thinking about your successful meeting with Santosh, can you think of what Ramesh said to you tauntingly at lunch? How can you improve your self–image? Why not volunteer and do some social work in your neighbourhood? It will work. Do what you think is right and know that it was right. Remember, you can always rectify your wrong decisions the moment your find them to be wrong. On the other hand, if you do not take any decisions at all, how will you ever be able to improve your future decision making? |
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